Year C, Epiphany 6 Genesis 45:3-11,15
I have three older brothers. The oldest is 13 years older than me, the youngest is 8 years older. We were on very different levels when I was young. They were always doing something interesting and I was talking to my dolls or trying to get someone to play with me. Once when I was pretty young, they were trying to create booby traps in a wooded area near our house. They dug a large hole and covered it with branches. I was looking for them and fell right into the hole. They thought this was hilarious. But when they were done laughing they pulled me out. I wasn’t hurt, but it was mildly traumatic.However, this
can’t compare to what Joseph’s brothers did to him. Joseph was one of the youngest in the family,
a family of 12 boys. His father Jacob was not shy in showing that Joseph was
the favorite, which caused resentment with his older brothers. To make things
worse, Joseph was a little obnoxious. He
liked to tell his brothers about his dreams, dreams where they were bowing
before him. So they decided to get rid
of him, which I think we can agree was a bit of an extreme way to handle an
annoying younger sibling.
When they were
very far from home, they decided to throw him in a deep pit and leave him
there, with no water or food. This way no one could say that they actually
killed him, because he could have possibly escaped. While Joseph sat at the bottom of the pit,
they took a break and had lunch. Some
traders came by on their way to Egypt and the brothers thought, hey we might as
well make some money on this whole thing and sold their brother to the
traders. They went home and told their
father that Joseph was killed by a wild animal. Now, I think we can all agree
that these brothers were horrible and Joseph would have some good reasons to
carry a grudge.
There are a lot of things that
happened to Joseph when he got to Egypt, but eventually he was given the
opportunity to interpret the dreams of the pharaoh and he predicted a 7 year
drought and famine that would be preceded by 7 years of plenty. The pharaoh was so impressed by this
prediction he put Joseph in charge of the land so that they would be prepared
for the famine. Joseph did a great job preparing
for the famine and when we come to our reading for today, they were 2 years
into the famine.
People from all
around were coming to Egypt to beg Joseph for food because Egypt had prepared
(thanks to Joseph). That’s how Joseph’s brothers ended up appealing to
Joseph. At this point, it had been about
20 years since he had seen his brothers, which is at least one of the reasons
why they didn’t recognize him until he told them who he was.
In our reading for today, we see this
beautiful encounter between Joseph and his brothers. While the word “forgiveness” is not used in
this part of the story, Joseph’s words and actions demonstrated radical forgiveness
to people who considered murdering him and then compromised by selling him into
slavery. In our
reading for today, he said, “I am your brother Joseph, whom you sold into
Egypt. And now do not be distressed, or angry with yourselves, because you
sold me here; for God sent me before you to preserve life.” He then promised to
provide for them and their families for the next 5 years of the famine.
It
seems astounding, even divine. From what we can see his brothers have not
apologized or given him any reason to provide for them after what they did.
This seems to align with our Gospel reading where Jesus said, “Forgive and you
will be forgiven.” Jesus also told us to
love our enemies and do good to those who hate us. Is this what that looks
like? Did Joseph just provide forgiveness without asking anything from his
brothers?
Remember there are 7 chapters before this
dramatic moment. This is a long story
arc for the Bible. The brothers first
showed up 3 chapters before. Joseph gave
them food but not before he accused them of being spies. Then while they were
not looking, he instructed his servants to put the money they used to buy the
food back in their bags so he could accuse them of stealing. He didn’t, but when they found the money upon
their return home, you can imagine it made them a little anxious.
The next time they came to Egypt, Joseph planted
a silver cup in the youngest brother’s bag and then sent people after them to
accuse them of stealing the cup. He said
that the youngest brother, Benjamin would have to be detained in Egypt. The brothers knew this would kill their
father, who had already lost one son. And Benjamin was the one brother who had
not been part of the plot to kill Joseph. He was the only innocent one. So an older brother, Judah, offered to stay and
be a slave in place of him. It was only
then…when Joseph saw that they were willing to sacrifice themselves for the one
innocent one, when he finally admitted who he was.
And notice how he introduces himself. He doesn’t say, “It’s Joseph---your long lost
brother.” He said, “I am your brother Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt.” He reminded them of what they had done. He named the evil that they had perpetrated
and then added that God had allowed good to come out of it. He named the evil and also the redemption
that God had made possible. It was only
then when they could start the process of reconciliation. And it was a
process. It wasn’t until their father
Jacob had died that the brothers finally asked for Joseph’s forgiveness.
I think sometimes when we consider our faith, we
think it should be easy. We say, well
Jesus told us to love our enemies, but that is totally unrealistic. We don’t
need to even try. Joseph gives us a
model for loving those who hurt us…and he shows us it can be painful, gut
wrenching. I don’t have definitive proof of this, but I am pretty sure that no
one weeps as much as Joseph does, in the entire Bible. Over the course of the story, he broke down
weeping 7 times…and that was after seeing his brothers. The author of Genesis doesn’t even mention
him weeping when he was sold into slavery…only after being reunited with his
family. That was when the really hard
work began. Both sides had to do the
work. When Joseph’s father died, the
brothers were terrified that Joseph would now punish them. They were incredibly
aware of what they had done wrong, how it affected their father, and of course
Joseph. Love and reconciliation is hard
work, for everyone.
Another thing I love about this story is that not
only does it show what forgiveness can look like, it shows us what leadership
and the proper use of power looks like.
Joseph saved a nation from starving by being a good steward. When people
came to him begging for food, he didn’t make them grovel. He didn’t take more
from them then he needed. He helped them.
In a later chapter, there is a story of people
having to sell their animals and their land to Joseph so they could have food.
That meant that when the famine was over, they would have no way to provide for
themselves. Joseph bought the land, but
told them that when the famine was over, they could keep 4/5 of the yield and
share 1/5 with the pharaoh.
Joseph did this because he knew that he had all
this because of what God had given him, so of course he wasn’t going to hoard
it all for the pharaoh. We have all seen
examples of how power and money can corrupt people, but this story shows us
that it doesn’t have to be that way. There is always room for mercy and
forgiveness. It might make things a little more difficult, but it’s worth it.
It’s always worth it.
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